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Some advise to help you speed everything up

Avoid profile without a complete description (criteria, gauges and presentation). Someone really serious won't miss any of 3. It have to be lengthy, complete, without any ambiguity.

Avoid profiles which doesn't seem clear and like to cultivate mystery. When you search your Soul Mate there are no place for mystery. It's already hard enough, in this world, to find a true friend. So if some add mystery, you will never find your One but only bad encounters; Which will lead to bad conclusions. Profile have to be unequivocal.

If the match score is above 3K - 4K (3000 - 4000) it's near sure you don't match. I'm really sorry but, if there are none other Seekers, you will have to wait new members. Promoting the platform around you, can only help to avoid it.

Don't succumb in a weak moment. A lot of people here are tired to wait their Lovely and, in a hurry, may try to enlarge their research. It shall not happen, because at the opposite there are predators, as much women than men (both without exception). If in a weak moment you fall on one of them, you are down. So you will need to be patient to find IT. Yes indeed sometime it takes decades but, at least, you never leave the right way, YOUR WAY.

The whole question list you shall ask to your Soul Mate and Yourself before to start anything

It's not mandatory but still, if you are serious, You must answer these questions.
When you find someone with who you could match you shall both give the answers to each other (before to read it, to avoid asking yourself if someone is lying to you). This alone will already help you to avoid dozens of bad meetings. It can be with anyone you encounter, no need to be on internet. You shall always verify these answers before to go further.

It may seems long and complicate but when you seek The One, You seek THIS Soul with who you want to share your whole life, you want to wholly give yourself to it. It implies so much responsibilities, so much repercussions, so much organisation, so much Harmony.
You shall never think a smile nor a picture will help you to find your Forever. Only these questions, that you cautiously answered, will help you to go the right way. Same for your profile, it's the only way your "all time Partner" have to find you. So never over-watch it.

There are only trick questions, so it's normal if it seems difficult.

1| If you have to choose between have a child or be infertile, which of the two would you choose (You must answer only one) ? If you want children, 3 additional questions (You can skip if not):

1a| What impact shall it have on your romantic relationship ?

1b| What kind of education do you want to offer them ?

1c| How will you assist your children (Only 1 answer, about you, not what you expect from your partner): 1) Very protective, few outing, a lot of oversight to avoid any "excess" as long as they didn't grow (16+); 2) The sooner they are independent, the sooner they will handle themselves; 3) Long term orientation, toward a precise way; 4) A lot of outings, hobbies, but all together; 5) Find their way and bring them what they need to flourish themselves, whatever you like it or not; 6) Same than 5 but with some limits 7) They are quite enough smart, except big topics, they don't need me so much.

2| What is your perfect couple : 1) Each one his house, and we see each other 1 or 2 times per week; 2) Both over each other the whole day, always together; 3) One house but everyone have their privacy, clearly defined in advance; 4) A relay: "1 time you, 1 time me"; 5) Often together but not one over the other;

3| How much outings, per week, do you want to do together ? Where precisely ?

4| You are kind to: 1) Like surprise but still with strong foundations (You usually know a surprise is coming); 2) On the fly, unpredictable; 3) Plan ahead, a well-kept agenda to avoid any intrusion;

5| Professionally you are: 1) I take any kind of job, as long as I earn a lot of money; 2) No choice I have to pay bills; 3) The less I work, the better I am, pizza are cheap; 4) Provide support to those who deserve it, abnegation and devotion; 5) Passion above all, even if it doesn't bring money

6| How much money do you earn and how much do you expect from your Partner ? (Long answer awaited)

7| What place your work shall take in your relationship ?

8| If you define your partner: 1) My precious, you would do everything for Him/Her; 2) Your teammate, you will share a lot together (the good and the bad); 3) Your Hero, the one you want to give/abandon yourself; 4) Your master, the one you will follow what ever happens; 5) A stooge, you get rid of it, if it shows any resistance; 6) Your confidant, the one helping you during bad times; 7) Your Soul Mate, very idealistic, the ultimate harmony, it must only be beneficial for both; 8) Your husband, the father of your children; 9) Your bank account, you can buy what you want with it; 10) Your companion, often together, you will follow the same path, all along, a lot of closeness; 11) An outlet (défouloir), the one with who you like to bicker; 12) Your lover, the one with who you want to conjugate;
You can pick more than 1 answer, but by order of priority (The most important first)

9| Does your couple shall have a specific socio-politico-economic orientation ? If yes, which ?

10| Is sport part of your relationship ? And personally ?

11| Which of these criteria is the most important (only one): Beauty, Purity of the Soul, Sincerity, Hygiene, Athletic, Money, Luxury

12| Personally, "how old" do you consider it normal to lose your virginity ?

13| How much influence your friends and family have on your Couple ? Same question for people outside of your circle/relatives ?

FAQ

Could I get more detail about how each part works ? In you account you have a "?" to the top right. Simply push it and it will highlight, with a number, each section. When you "Hover" them you will get the description.

Still there are mostly 5 Important steps:

1: Set your profile: Indicate everything you can about you and try to gauge it well
2: Search: Profile are ranked in matching order but you can check them all
3: When it seems you match send a Match request. If you don't match, but still think you could be good friends, you can send a friend request
4: "Likes and friends requests": Every members who sent you a request are listed here, if you send back the request, or someone sent it back to you, it will create a chat room
5: "Message room": All chats are here. Simply enter one and you will be able to talk together

It can not be more straightforward. Each time 2 Seekers send a request to each other (Even if it's not the same; ie: Friend request/Match Request) it create a chat where you can talk together

The chat seems to lack of features, when will it be fixed ? It doesn't have been though for weeks long conversations. It's first of all to allow anyone to find its Soul Mate. So I don't want you to spend more than 2 days talking here.
When we are serious about relationship, it's normal to share, at the very least, our mail (or any kind of chat hub where you feel you safe) and talk there. But after 2 days max you shall already share your phone number. It's just normal. We can effortlessly block who we want on it, so it's mostly safe.
We are not talking about your real address nor even a real meeting, but the phone.

It would be counter-intuitive to talk with someone during 2 days to still, the third, be shy about your phone. Which game would this be ? Certainly not the one of a Soul Seeker. If you are not convinced after such a long conversation, it simply means you don't match. So avoid, for both, to waste time.

So to answer the question: First there are no needs of additional features, then I don't plan at this stage to add any, because it's not the purpose of the platform. And considering it doesn't bring any revenue it would ask too much to store dozens of pictures.

It have been though for efficiency, so please let's be efficient.